Hey there, Ms D.
First, don't sell yourself short. I saw your messages an hour or so ago and thought you might like to know who else is related to royalty, specifically to Princess Diana. Now, most (I think all, really) of these people are also related to each other, as well as to me, through our New England ancestry (small geographically, big families that spent an awful lot of their time recording what went where--a benefit, I suppose, of a culture based on trade rather than focused on large-scale farming). Hugh Hefner is Di's 9th cousin; Juliette Frette (Miss June 2008) is Di's 11th cousin once removed (she's also a great-granddaughter of Grand Ol' Opry founder George Dewey Hay, which is interesting because Hay's ancestors came from New England, not the south; likewise, while Col. Sanders was born in Indiana, his family came from Vermont--no Kentucky connection); Kalin Olson (Miss August 1997) is a great-granddaughter of Calif. Gov. Culbert Olson, and she's an 11th cousin once removed of Di; Deborah Driggs (Miss March 1990) was Di's 10th cousin once removed; Bebe Buell (Liv Tyler's mom and relative of pin-up artist Al Buell--same family, different branches) was a 12th cousin of Di's; Marguerite Empey (who was a centerfold twice, once in May 1955 & again in February 1956) was a 10th cousin once removed of Di's; Alice Denham, who went on to teach creative writing at City College of New York and was Miss July 1956 was a 9th cousin once removed of Di's; Pat Sheehan, Big Crosby's former daughter-in-law and former step-mother of Denise Crosby, was also a 10th cousin once removed of Diana's; Joan Staley, Miss November 1958, was a 15th cousin once removed of Diana's; Stella Stevens, the actress, was Miss January 1960 and was a 13th cousin once removed of Di's; Kristi Cline (Miss September 1999) was a 13th cousin, 4x removed of Diana's; Yvette Vickers (Miss July 1959) was a 15th cousin 1x removed of Diana's and Marilyn Monroe, the first Playboy centerfold Sweetheart of the Mont for December 1953, the premier issue, was a 10th cousin 1x removed of Diana's, so all those centerfolds from that one magazine are kin to presumably a future King of the United Kingdom of Great Britain & Northern Ireland. Wanna know more? Got your interest? How about this--Jenna Jameson is a 17th cousin 5x removed of Diana's, and Brandi Love is a 14th cousin 3x removed of hers, too. More? Charis Wilson, a nude model who worked for and then married Edward Weston, was a 9th cousin 1x removed of Diana's; Audrey Munson, the first women to appear nude in film (during the era of silent movies) was a 12th cousin 3x removed of Diana's; and Faith Bacon, a Ziegfeld Follies dancer who influenced later exotic dancers (including Blaze Star) with her creation of the fan dance, was a 9th cousin 2x removed of Diana's. Faith is also from the same family as Kevin Bacon (different branches--they're 9th cousins once removed), her 2nd cousin 1x removed was Gen. George S. Patton, and her great-grandfather was Henry Douglas Bacon, an endower of what became the University of California, Berkeley. And again, the vast majority of all of these women is at some point in just the past 400-500 years a cousin of ever other woman in that list. You said your family has been in America since the 1600s--a good share of those early colonists had to have more than a couple pennies to scratch together to make the voyage (by comparison, it would cost Ugo less to immigrate today than it did for our ancestors then), or if they came over in the service of someone wealthier, chances were that with so few Europeans living here, they wound up marrying someone within just a few generations whose family came from one of those wealthier families, and that means that more often than not, somewhere back within another 300-400 years there was someone royal. In other words, I would not at all be surprised to find you're A) related at some point to royalty & B) that you are descended from royalty. Its really humbling, I think, when you consider that people back then were willing to risk everything to come here to create something completely new with precious little chance of being able to go back home, let alone the ability to just send a letter or two to family left in the Olde Country. Now, one last bit o' trivia for a gentlewoman who deserved a number of those little blue boxes filled with sparkly goodies: Richard Gere's middle name is Tiffany. Sounds, well, weird, except that Tiffany's his mother's maiden name. Just as Faith Bacon is related to Kevin, and Bebe Buell's related to Al, Richard is related to Louis Comfort Tiffany, the jeweler. And anyone who would judge you by how you look, what you do for a living or anything like that isn't worth your time, energy or anything else, crown or not. A person can be born with a silver spoon in his or her mouth and a crown upon their head, but nobility and dignity are something we all are entitled to and I believe deserve regardless of the rest. Besides, you have certain, um, attributes that are more than vaguely similar to those of Harry's girlfriend

. If you really want someone to look into your family tree more, I'd be happy to, if its something you really want done. I'm more informal than a pro genealogist, but you also get what you pay for, which is nothing. And, for what its worth, I do have a cousin (we share Sherman ancestry--his line stayed in England, mine came to New England) who lives in England and who is a professional genealogist (retired though) who is also a member of the Society of Genealogists in London. If I have a simple question, he's usually good enough to answer it or take a look in the records the Society keeps to see if there's an answer there. So there you have it, Danielle. Lots of women in similar lines of work to you with royal connections of their own, so like I said at the beginning, don't sell yourself short. WhyYou's signature really says it the best though. Cheers, amiga!