danielle_ftv

I am sorry, friend Danielle that are found with a violent boy. You have all of my compassion of support.
The men don't have to hate the woman! Is a creature of God!!

Well from a legal stand point I can't see it being a problem, I did my Post Grad in Business Law and it did touch on AVO's etc in the Australian system and from what I understand it's very similar to the USA. A conditional threat is still a threat, and in the strictest legal sense it's still assault, as it causes you to feel genuinely threatened. I know in our system that's adequate grounds. That said the guy doesn't sound to bright (what were you thinking? :P) I'd buy him a wet/dry vac and tell him that's the only action he'll get for a while (but I am a huge stirrer by nature!) Seriously though, the best thing you can do is arm yourself with evidence.

Dole whip sounds goooood! I spent my afternoon downloading from FTV in the background and trying to fix the bugs in that genealogy program (lots of bugs ). It took me about 6 hours and I think I finally fixed 'em. Thing is, I worked through my lunch, forgot to take care of my meds and now have to play catch-up with the rest of my life (c'est la vie). With everything else, just do what you need to take care of yourself, stay healthy and stay happy. I saw someone mention your giggle on the board a few minutes ago (I think it was in the "what aspect ..." string). I agree--it give me a big smile, and I thank you most humbly for that! Cheers, Ms Danielle!

I just thought of something else--if this not-so-nice guy is trying to damage your rep., it may be possible if it gets bad enough to challenge him another way. He's trying to defame you, right? In other words, he's trying to cost you & Rob your livelihoods, making it impossible to find work in your careers, right? I think that there was a law that is supposed to prevent someone from scuttling your career(s). It may have been something that was passed, something that was overturned, I forget what or when, but I do have this vague memory of my prof. discussing this issue once upon a time (in a galaxy far, far away ...). Maybe one more way you can burden/challenge the other guy with legal issues, rather than playing defense. Anyway, there was something in Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle that seemed apropos, something about people getting what's coming to them in the end. Cheers, and have a nice night and great tomorrow!

Oh, I did check my other in-box and got your message. I have most of the things there turned off just so I'm not inundated with a lot of garbage, and my primary email has a filter on it that limits attachments and I make good use of my spam filters, so with that younger person emailing you, I'd probably give serious thought to disabling some of those features, too (hence my responding here rather than there). I think that there is a filter that prevents someone writing to or viewing parts of the site under a certain age. I just keep mine private and use it as a very low-key means of advertising for people I respect more than anything else. I also use it, on occasion, as a sounding board for myself for my own thoughts, sometimes with some input from others. I'm not big on the whole networking thing nowadays, but, as with you, I see someone I find cool or intriguing, I'll put out my hand--you never know, it might wind up being helpful. But what you said struck a chord with me because of a certain younger family member of mine with a growing interest in, first tattoos, and second, asking why someone would want to take their clothes off. I know its not something I'm encouraging (way too young for those sorts of questions!), and I think I figured out where they're coming from (the boyfriend of a friend's mother), which made me check the Washoe Sheriff's website for offenders in the area (again--Brianna Dennison was found just blocks from here--I still have a blue ribbon on my front door). Sum total, just be careful, and shut down parts where and when you need to, not only to protect yourself but also protect others, such as that younger admirer of yours. Cheers, and have a nice day!

It didn't start off as a 9 degrees thing, or as something I planned on posting, just as a "test drive" for a program I got to organize my genealogy projects. Its not quite what I wanted in a program, and its given me a lot of headaches (so many that since I joined the forum a couple weeks ago I'd given it a miss). Anyway, about 3/4 through that list (which went on and on beyond what I posted here), I thought of the Kevin bacon thing, truncated the original by half and wrapped things around to Kevin. Seemed the right thing to do. I think its a law now, too, but I could be wrong . BTW, whats that Dole thing you were talking about? I drink Dole juice (one of the few I can find that is actually juice and not high fructose corn syrup--bad for the body, bad for the teeth) & eat Dole raisins, but I've never been to Hawaii (I'm more a cold weather person--I'd rather visit Sasquatch in Vancouver--nice guy, likes the Dead--barefoot, likes nature hikes and so on ... ).

I noticed the change. I think since the web site will be opening on Wed, I'll unstick two of the threads that are not really needed..."DANIELLEFTV Goes live on Oct 1st" and "Remember the site is not done yet"...that should keep Rob happy because it'll be one less stuck thread after I add a replies thread

Hi, birthday is Aug 16 1977. I gotta ask, what kinda boys do you date that do damage to cars etc? I'm fortunate that my size is intimidating (6'5 and 100kg) so I don't really get many violence orientated alpha male wannabes try and start trouble with me, but I'd never be violent towards a girl or her property. Ps the wife says your cute as well haha

As for your restraining order dilemma and that internet clown, I don't believe it extends to online forums, but if what he says is blatently false you can get him for defamation and slander. Best thing is not to react, they feed off a reaction, quietly take down the evidence, and then hit them with a defamation suite, far more effective.

Hope that helps

Actually i can think of lots of nick names. We have similar eye color though, so i noticed that.

Hey, did you see the government link I posted about cyberbullying in the Danielle's Journal thread before it did a ninja vanish? http://www.us-cert.gov/cas/tips/ST06-005.html It covers a lot that you've mentioned.