Originally Posted by max (Post 7401)

that is very sad that your wife was killed by a drunk driver. Driving drunk really isn't ever an accident. It is completely immoral. I have had too much to drink before, and i knew i was incapable of driving. However, i still believe that if i were murdered, more women would feel sorry for the murderer than for me. I have never met a woman that would even care if i were murdered.

Originally Posted by grande351 (Post 7374)

Wow, Mart! I'm really sorry to hear about your accident. I can't believe that someone could be that shallow and crass to say something like that. I think she's actually the one with the problem, not you. Don't let it discourage you.

Originally Posted by mart (Post 7412)

Thanks Grande351. To be fair on her she did stay with me thoughout my recovery and we stayed together for about two months after that. During that time i knew she was concerned about the way i looked because we stopped going out and she stopped wanting to kiss me any more. I knew it was over way before she mentioned about my looks. So i was prepared to accept it. Then the day came that we agreed to part and i let her go without an arguement. I wanted to be really angry with her but i just couldn't. I guess she wasn't the woman for me. To this day i still can't blame her for anything.

Originally Posted by laranger (Post 7422)

Originally Posted by eastbill (Post 7480)

i agree congrats on your upstanding character. you are the one who wins in the big picture.

Originally Posted by tigger (Post 7411)

max i dont think any one would be happy if somthing happened to you. We might not agree with you on things but that in no way means we would want any thing to happen to you. You have friends and family who care about you. I was varry angry when i lost my wife but i had people who got me help. You would be suprised who would be there for you when you need it. Dont try to take on lifes problems by your self , it will eat you alive. dont be afraid to ask for help. we all need help along the way. bealeave me i have had a lot of help along the way.

Originally Posted by Max (Post 7617)

This is because almost all women are out to get me.

Originally Posted by Max (Post 7617)

I'm not trying to take on life's problems by myself, I am generally just avoiding anything that would take a miricle to overcome, unless I have nothing to lose. It's really a bad idea to try to rise up, and try to find a woman, if there is no way that you will succeed. You will probably get arrested, shot, killed, assaulted, or possibly deported. This is because almost all women are out to get me.

Originally Posted by mart (Post 7633)

I can't believe at such a young age that you can have this kind of attitude towards women Max. Unless your talking from bad experiences. Hopefully your attitude will change as you get older. Many men have had bad times with women and put it down to experience that's how we learn about relationships. Please get rid of that chip on your shoulder or it'll eat you alive.

Originally Posted by Max (Post 13376)

Let me just put it this way, I have had constant bad experiences with women, and although I seem bitter toward them, I just prefer to stay neutral. I don't really present myself to them like I do to men, because I have a tendency to feel comfortable around men, I'm not really interested in dating, but I'm not Dick Masterson. That guy goes way too far, by saying all women have tourette's, and women should not be allowed to vote. There are few things that the guy says that are true, which I do not consider sexist. Marriage is a business decision. It is a very poor idea to make a business decision based on emotions. I don't bet on the Detroit Lions because I feel sorry for them, I don't smoke a cigarette, because someone calls me a chicken (smoking is an extreme waste of money too), and I don't get married because I am in love.

Originally Posted by laranger (Post 13381)

Originally Posted by Max (Post 7393)

I also do not like the way that men have to ask women out. It can't happen the other way EVER. It's like the universe would collapse if that ever did happen. It can be uncomfortable asking someone out, and it always is. I hate the way that women try to be polite to me. I'm not that naive, so the excuse that you come up with is even worst than relentlessly swearing at me. (P.S. don't slap me, I will fight back and probably end the fight with a curb stomp). I don't really ask either, becuase I am bound to failure.

Originally Posted by Max (Post 13376)

Let me just put it this way, I have had constant bad experiences with women, and although I seem bitter toward them, I just prefer to stay neutral. I don't really present myself to them like I do to men, because I have a tendency to feel comfortable around men, I'm not really interested in dating, but I'm not Dick Masterson. That guy goes way too far, by saying all women have tourette's, and women should not be allowed to vote. There are few things that the guy says that are true, which I do not consider sexist. Marriage is a business decision. It is a very poor idea to make a business decision based on emotions. I don't bet on the Detroit Lions because I feel sorry for them, I don't smoke a cigarette, because someone calls me a chicken (smoking is an extreme waste of money too), and I don't get married because I am in love.

Originally Posted by TheDoctor (Post 13449)

Dick Masterson... very evocative name. Speaking of your attitude about the men and the ladies, are you gay, mysoginist or both? I agree with Geezer; if I were you I would go to a shrink to answer that question (and be sure I can pay for it).

Originally Posted by raven_azrael (Post 4753)

I have posted this on my myspace blog. Anyone interested PM me to give you my blog page.

Since I was a kid I always heard that women were the weaker sex. Men rule the world and and blah, blah, blah. If we just turn on the TV or grab a newspaper and open it at any page we are going to see men. Great corporations are ruled by men, most country presidents are men. So in appearance men rule the world. Would it be the reason of current chaos?

Well, actually, there is an old saying in Spanish, that in English would be like “Behind a great man, there is a great woman”. So going into a simpler context, women rule the world!

Why? Ok, chauvinist societies have stated that men´s last name will be adopted by wife and children (maybe Brazil is an example were children adquire mother´s last name). So everybody believes the one who rule the house is “the man”. However, everything is derivate from the woman. Who accepted to marry him? The woman!. At the wedding, everybody is looking to see the groom? No!!! Every single eye is on the bride. Her dress, her hair, make up, every step she does. So if the girl would have not accepted that damn ring the man would not be “the man”.

Imagine you are at night club with your friends (male friends). You see a bunch of girls dancing and drinking. Some guys just stare at them, some go to them to dance, but the females just ignore them. You and your budies say “ Hey let´s go”. “They are alone”. So you all in hound wait some seconds to go hunting. You go there, imagining all thinks you can do to her at the four paws ring called bed, while scanning their bodies. However, you go and do your best shot. They talk to you, so you male ego is up now, but then they say “Bye”. They go to the rest room or they just quit. All fantasies went to the toilet, as well as your fantasies. So again, a guy can approach a princess or a female beast, but the girl is the one that can say “yes” or a categorical “no”. Some guys imagine that if a girl is dresses with not so many clothes on her she is a lustful creature who has gone out to suck as many male as possible. But truth to be said, not everyone who goes out is looking for a one night stand. So again, women decide when and how.

How many times you or a friend of yours have been dismissed by a girl he liked for a ride. Probably if not a lot, not a few. How may times a female friend or you” female reader have been rejected by a guy when you wanted to fun? Probably just 1% would say yes. That is because guys never reject a girl who wants them to …. Copulate (being more serious, lol). Maybe if the guy found the girl too unattractive he did not wanted to do that or was a loyal guy to his beloved girlfriend.

So women are the ones who rule the world, but stupid males still believe they have control. Ok do you remember fairy tales? The knight that has to kill the dragon, the ogre or the with to save the defenseless princess? Wow, poor devil bastard, he almost diess for her!! What in the blue hell is she doing for that guy in addition to sleeping in the highest tower of the castle or IDK.

Girls weaker sex? Hmm yeah they complain about everything. If they don´t, be careful she can be a man!. (just joking) But hey that attitude makes believe that they are to be protected, but in reality, they act that way cause they want the guy to make them feel protected. There are many girls wrestling and MMA fighters that can kick our ***** any single day. So girls are not weak, they have learnt t be that way by society. So again, girls have control.

If you watch the news, sometimes you will notice that a guy commit suicide because a girl dumped him. Statistically, on love deceptions cases, males tend to commit suicide in a higher rate than females. Are women loveless or emotionless? No. Just they are emotionally stronger.

As a conclusion, I can say that you can´t take any girl for granted. They are a complex species that, no matter what you think, have more elaborate thoughts. Are more sensible, but can be more cruel and tenacious than a guy if given a reason. In other words, I am sorry you guys, women own men.

Love me, hate me, I don´t care……

Originally Posted by tacolover (Post 13873)

hmmm... "the world is ruled by the power of the *****." (a quote from a porno, but still true) always has been, always will be.

Originally Posted by danielle_ftv (Post 5587)

I'm sorry sweetie...that you were treated like that by girls. I'm sure it has put a bad taste in your mouth towards the female sex. But you've also got to remember that we aren't all alike and I'm sure one day you will meet the girl of your dreams.

Originally Posted by mart (Post 13379)

I can understand what your saying Max, it just takes a little trust on both sides and just meeting the right person.:)

Originally Posted by Max (Post 14641)

When I was in high school I went after women at full force, I went the whole way in 5th gear, I kept at it, and thought that I was making all the right moves, even though I had bad luck, I got accused of sexual harrassment 4 times in high school, and a year later, I started to realize something. As I said one minute I was in 5th gear, and the next, I realized, hold on, just stop, hit the brakes, neutral, lets rethink this, and it really ended up for the better in my life. It has really taken this past year to get from full bitterness towards the opposite sex, to just staying neutral, and not being afraid to interact with them, but have them come up to me first.

Originally Posted by Immortal (Post 14630)

This i may add Danielle, is 100% TRUE! I was where Max is now, But i did meet the girl of my dreams 2 1/2 years ago. I never really knew what true love was or if it existed, It does! I'm now in a relationship that some people only dream about. If i ever lost her i could never love anyone like i do her.

Originally Posted by Danifan2009 (Post 14820)

i know how that is i was married twice and both was duds one was physically abusive and one was mentally abusive now i finally met the man of my dreams it took me 14 years but i finally got the one!!! yes women rule!:D:cool:

Originally Posted by 100% AGAVE (Post 14870)

Max,

Just my 2 cents. I went through some rough times when I was younger and had to work thorough quite a few issues before I found a loving relationship. It all comes down to the fact that you have to be comfortable with yourself and who you are before you should get involved in a relationship. Until you yourself are healthy, you will attract and be attracted to women who will meet the negative expectations that you have set-up. Not to get too Freud on you, but most likely a lot of this is due to unresolved issues that happened in your childhood. I am saying this from experience, I think you should strongly consider seeing a counselor. Don't wait until you you can say "I should have done this or that". If you want to be a martyr .... fine, keep doing what you are doing and enjoy it. Otherwise TAKE ACTION.

Originally Posted by DWM222 (Post 14899)

Max...women are great..I've been married lots of times & only lost a few houses/cars
(I need to get married one more time so I can get rid of this piece of **** house that I have now..in the next divorce)..LOL
:)

Originally Posted by DWM222 (Post 14899)

Max...women are great..I've been married lots of times & only lost a few houses/cars
(I need to get married one more time so I can get rid of this piece of **** house that I have now..in the next divorce)..LOL
:)

Originally Posted by Max (Post 14910)

I don't see why you would get married if the thought of divorce even enters your mind. Marriage is supposed to be for life, but in our culture it has been something that has been warped into something that can be changed. Divorce used to only be a last resort, and getting married and divorced is significantly worse than not even getting married in the first place. 1st off, the quote "it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" is a lie. You will never miss what you never had, and you will miss something you treasured and lost significantly. Also, why can't you just sell the house, or demolish it? I think it used to be fine to get married, but in today's society, it is just a bad business decision for men, and the divorce rate is very high. As I said earlier, some people, especially women, will do anything to get married, and don't understand that they should run like hell, unless they are marying the right person. One house lost is too many, when you marry a woman you have to be EXTREMELY CAREFUL, I can't stress this enough. You should be dating at least 4 years if not more, The "womanizer" concept is stupid, it is just a dumb label women put on men, just like "slut" or "whore" is a dumb label men put on women. You should only have one marriage, unless you are someone like Joe Biden, whose wife died in a car wreck. This is a problem for both sexes, not just women.

Originally Posted by DWM222 (Post 14899)

Max...women are great..I've been married lots of times & only lost a few houses/cars
(I need to get married one more time so I can get rid of this piece of **** house that I have now..in the next divorce)..LOL
:)

Originally Posted by DWM222 (Post 14899)

(I need to get married one more time so I can get rid of this piece of **** house that I have now..in the next divorce)..LOL
:)

Originally Posted by raven_azrael (Post 4753)

If you watch the news, sometimes you will notice that a guy commit suicide because a girl dumped him. Statistically, on love deceptions cases, males tend to commit suicide in a higher rate than females. Are women loveless or emotionless? No. Just they are emotionally stronger.
Love me, hate me, I don´t care……