Rocky Point Mexico
 

Danielle:
As you may recall, I have friends that live in Tubac, just north of the border. They will not, under any circumstances, visit Rocky Point anymore. Too dangerous!
Just a "FYI".
Hugs,
Longhornbill

PMs ??

No one gets a perfect score on a test--I know from experience, and I'm sure in his undergrad days, Rob botched an exam, too. You chalk it up to experience, and learn from it. You may have failed the academic part of the test, but its what you do with it when you apply that failure to the rest of your life that matters here, so study and do better next time :)

About Mexico, I'd be disinclined to head south of the border. Even a place like Aruba with its close connections to the Netherlands isn't a place I'd be happy to let my nieces go to (I do wonder if the Aruban or Dutch authorities would have put more emphasis on Ms Holloway's disappearance had they known that she is/was a relative of Teddy Roosevelt?). I'd be especially disinclined to approve of a trip south of the order for a young blonde woman with, ahem, ample virtues, but as I've never been south of the border myself, I can't really speak from experience, and what I do know from reports actually has a lot more to do with TJ than along the AZ or TX border or from Cabo or Yucatan. But Texasdrake made a very, very (VERY) good point about never leaving your drink, soft or alcohol, unattended. For that matter, you shouldn't do that here, either--plenty of date rapes or acquaintance rapes happen off campus among students.

And as far as the whole taking your family to work thing goes, well, you run the gambit from Mike and Shelby Hodges, who screen their daughter's non-sex scenes and give her feedback, to what a distant relative of mine did (who is in the business) founding Parents in Adult, to to what you encountered with your sister where academia hit reality. Its not always easy to know how you're going to react to something until you actually see it for real. To be honest, I've been thinking about how I'd react were I in either of your places, and I'm not sure, but I know either way I'd be anxious, on the one hand about being judged, betrayed or ostracized, and on the other hand about someone I care for maybe being exploited, hurt mentally or physically or, again, being judged by others who don't know the whole story. Knowledge is power, but sometimes the difference between what you know, or what you think you know, and what's really going on can be a big shock as I assume it was for both of you. So taking a break from each other for a while isn't so bad, and when you two are ready to talk (or not) you can. Que sera sera, whatever will be, will be.

Mexico
 

Bottom line; Do worth it. Do not go.

All of this plabber is saying the same. All of these bunch of words can be reduced to NO!. I just do not unerestand why "they" cannot say NO without a treaste.

BJ

44%-hope she said she'd grade it on a curve. Did you tahe a test where you have to identify all different types of rocks? All I remember from mine is that one of the rocks had a salty taste and licking it was the way to figure it out. Can't remember what it was though.

Good luck in Mexico. Turning 21 is overrated. Bars get old fast.

You look great!!!!
 

I log on and read ALL of the "new posts" several times a day along with getting emails whenever someone posts something. As far as I can remember, the ONLY member to hint at Danielle's weight is "Kennyhello." If you look at his profile, he is, supposedly, 21 years old. I'm guessing he's not very "socialized" and doesn't know HOW to talk to a woman.

Don't let this one guy ruin your day, Danielle. FEEL the "love" from all the rest of us and forget the rare stupid comment by someone too young to know what he's saying.

Well put!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm not sure if she grades on a curve or not. And yep...we did take that test in Geo lab. Our Geo lecture tests are a lot different and a lot harder. Halite is the salty one....but I didn't actually taste it. I only know the difference because Halite and Calcite are the only two minerals that look the same and Calcite reacts with acid.

Im glad you had a good time and retured safely! good luck on the tests.

Sounds like you had an exceptional time, Ms D (until trying to come back across the border). I've never been south of the border, and the closest I've gotten to going out of the US has either been going through the Pomo Res in N. Calif., or skirting the Pine Ridge Res (I'm not 100% sure if we went in or not). I do have to admit I miss Guinness, especially on Paddy's day (he was Scottish, BTW, not Irish--he was from Kilpatrick near Glasgow and kidnapped & taken to Eire by a fellow named Niall--ancestor of the O'Neills and O'Donnells). I also miss Merlot, Pinot Noir and Tanqueray and tonic (or Bombay Sapphire!). And so what if you're a bit of a naturist at heart--I've heard of worse! Actually, I admire people who are comfortable in their own skins and don't put on airs--the world would be a much nicer place, me thinks, if more people were as open and honest as you! Anyway, glad you're home safe & sound, really happy you had what sounds like a fantastic time, and best wishes on those exams. And so you're going to have some April showers, okay, but you know what April Showers bring? May flowers, just in time for your 21st! Who-hoo, and so what if some Pilgrims crash your party--could be worse--could be a bunch of Puritans (at least the Pilgrims had a healthier, more well-adjusted way of looking at sex!). Cheerio :)

glad you had nice time!
allot of naked girls? wow i must go sometime on those partys lol.
its cool the way you are about nudity. i cant say i would be upset if my gf would join the fun, its only being naked not kissing other guys lol..i would know in the end at nigth it would be her and me .. havning fun is never wrong.
i like the way you think about it :)

danielle... glad you got back safe and had a good time... you were missed.

sounds wild there never been to a place wild like that...

I can't imagine a guy not being pissed about his girlfriend flashing other people at the clubs. There would be many reasons why with jealousy being at the top. Then you have to deal with all the guys coming up to your girl and you wonder if that's why she did it. Just ruins the night and a fight(verbal) with the g/f will follow.

I am gald you had a fun SB... your trip to La Vegas would be awesome.... but remember there is a saying like...everybody gets married in las Vegas, lol...
good luck on your mid-terms..

Danielle telling her mom about what she's doing. All I can say is:
Wow, Danielle you are a courageous young lady!

So the fear of discovery is over--that's good. Now you and your mom, and the rest of your family, can move on. She's probably going to be anxious, so keep talking to her--offer a little info, let her ask a few questions (although I imagine you've already done a bit of that already). And you know that despite your disagreement with your sister, she is still someone who will keep your confidences, and that's not so bad. Anyway, I do hope that you and your family do manage to find a happy ground where you can all live--seems to me that the biggest problems occur when families split apart, and not necessarily over porn. Its a kinda a less coherent answer than I'd like to give (beyond thank goodness its out in the open, and I'm sure you and your mom will not drift apart if you two don;t allow it)--all I can do is try to imagine what I'd feel like from both your perspectives if I were in the same or similar circumstances and then try to empathize.

With school, let me just say BOO-YEAH! I admit I was worried (a bit) when I saw your course load and with the amount of time you spend working not just here on this site but also your freelance work, and was seriously worried about you getting back in the groove of things with school, but let me just say here and now that I for one should never have doubted you, and that I am very, very proud of what you've accomplished balancing work, school and your new friends--big time super happy for you, Ms D! :cool::D

danielle... that i am sure was difficult to deal with, but good that you did. Letting her know you are happy and doing well will go a far way. Communication always helps.

Great on the grades. Not easy to do work, and school.

I was worried about my mom when I was just visiting an adult convention, can't imagine having to tell the folks I was doing any modeling. :)

Danielle....Good for you, in my exerience, the truth is always easier to deal with, and you (in my opinion) never had anything to be ashamed of in the first place.....Yep...Good for you:):)

in the open
 

I think it's one big load off your shoulders with your Mom knowing about your modelling and such. I think what you just have to continue to reinforce to your Mom is how happy you are with having everything that you have accomplished so far. And it's alot! I think when your Mom continues to realize just how happy you are I'm sure she will come around more and understand more your choices.
Also nice to hear that your sis was able to keep some of your confidence and secrets.

In regards to your stepfather, just remember that it will be ackward for him too, not just you. I'm sure he will feel just as ackward around you as you around him.
(least you can talk about Robs cars with him now)

And congrats on keeping a handle on school, always a challenge and you're doing great there too.

I am proud of you. There is nothing wrong with what you do for a living and I am glad your mom is taking it as well as she is. I am sure she is not thrilled but at least she is not freaking out and disowning you for it!

As far as your grade, Awesome Job! I just hope that I get as good of grades as you now that I am going back to school after 15 yrs of being out.

That is so nice to hear Danielle coming out into the open with your mum. I'm glad she took it well and i guess you must be feeling relieved now that she knows.:)

im so glad your happy in life ! im glad all is going well !

Thanks for the support you guys and yeah I definitely feel less "anxious" now.

Danielle!
 

Danielle,I'm new here,amd i have to say babe that there's Absolutely Nothing wrong with any of your Modeling photos or your modelling career! The human body,including yours babe,is a Naturally Beautiful Work of Art! People,like all life on this planet are a part of nature and the natural evolution of all things in this world and universe;just like sex and nudity! It's also an important part of science,fact and reality of our existence here! You're a very Beautiful,Intelligent and Sexy Young Woman,Danielle,with your whole life and career ahead of you! I wish you continued success and happiness for your life and future,in the days,months and years ahead! Take Good Care of Yourself,Babe! xoxoxo-Robin

i understand ur life is busy as it is.. and dont worry im patient with the pm replies, you already replied more then any other girl ever done to me online.. i admire that...hope u get to go to portland later.
and hope u get some rest also ! xoxo
its important for us humans to rest some also, or it effects our imune system and we get sick more easy if overworked or overstressed.

No need to worry, Ms D, about not being here as often as once upon a time. I have to admit, I haven't been here as much as I was when we first started, and like I mentioned to you before, I miss those early days (and friends' departed). I think the vast majority of us can understand that you are just one person with a lot of responsibilities--work (both for the site and Rob as well as freelance work), school, family and so on. Okay, so maybe you aren't here quite as often as you were, you're still here quite a lot, and you do your best to keep that personal touch. I've read the messages each time you've done a webcam show, and frankly they are all glowing about just how open you are, and how much time you devote to them (makes me envious, but patience is a virtue, yadda yadda yadda). You do answer your questions, you do make video logs, you do put on those shows, you do keep the site updated very well, you do chat with us either via PM or on our pages and so on, so don't worry yourself about it. Do good in school, let us know what's up in your journal, stay close to your family and friends and all's good.

No worries we will survive. school is important.

I am sure we all understand that some days there just isn't enough time to do everything we want to get accomplished. I have always hated moving also it is such a pain. I rented for 13 years and when I did move all I had to show for 13 years of rent payments was $150 security depoist that I got back. I own my house now it is not much but it's mine. If it were my decision I would and stay and try to save enough money for downpayment on a house of your own.

You're doing a great job of dealing with your responsibilities. Focus on what's most important, school, family...etc. If that means you can't post as much as before, it's alright. :)

Sorry you didn't make it up to Portland. I hope you're feeling better now.

I've read that the Phoenix area has one of the most depressed housing markets in the country right now. That's bad news for the folks selling homes, but potentially good news for you. You might want to consider taking the plunge and buying a home if you feel you can afford it. There are some serious bargains out there. Just be careful and don't get in over your head.

I am truly sorry that this has been a week of bad luck for you.

For the webcam session, it's no big deal. We were pretty content just chatting with you. You could just as easily have called the session off completely, we would have understood.

For the ER visit, I'd rather go there more than once with the result "all OK" than avoiding it and be struck with something severe. You're definitely not hypochondric in my eyes. From what I read about the migraine, the pulsing feeling in your veins could have been the prodomal phase of your migraine already.

The missed class and the math test are less important than your health, I think. I wouldn't be too worried about them. I'm sure you can catch up later on.

That the migraine hit you right on the date of the Phoenix Forum is bad, bad luck in deed. I know you looked forward to the Forum. Dragging yourself out to the Forum with the migraine still going on won't help it at all. What you need right now is a silent, dark room where you can relax and wait for the migraine attack to pass, just the opposite of what the Phoenix Forum has to offer, I think. I'm sure Lia and Tate would understand. I doubt anybody would think you flaked out. I'm just sorry about the missed opportunities of the Forum, but those fall minor to your health.

I wish I could do something to help you through the migraine right now, like surely most of your other fans do, too.
I hope you already feel better when you read this.

Hey D,

I hope you are feeling better by the time you read this. I noticed you also commented on Facebook and I left you a one line note of encouragement.

I read about all of the stuff you are trying to do and it would give ME a migraine, as well. You are just buried under so many responsibilities and I don't think anyone could keep up with your schedule. Maybe you have to have a deep conversation with yourself and put your priorities in order.

Definitely, school IS important. If it means less updates here and not replying to PMs, so be it. I doubt that you are making any serious money here, with memberships, anyway. You have about 800-900 forum members but how many really pay the fee to join your pay site? Do what is best for YOU. Try to relax and find time to "just be!" No one wants you to be sick nor unhappy. Just realize you can only do so much and stay within your own limits.:)

sorry about the bad luck. but i am sure it will turn around.

first, webcam show was fun. it was great to just be able to talk. :)

second, i am sure if you talk to your teacher and show him the ER bill, paperwork, etc. she/he will be willing to work with you. and i am sure you did better than you think but maybe not as good as you wished.

Take care of your self first. we can wait and we understand... :)

Ck

Danielle,
Sorry your not feeling well. I hope you're better soon. The webcam was very enjoyable. You shouldn't feel that you have to perform for us every time. I find it just as enjoyable chatting with you. Judging from the other comments I've read, I'm not alone in that.

I don't get migranes often but I've had a few in my life and they can be absolutely debilitating. I wouldn't wish those on my worst enemy! Please don't worry about missing a class or two, or that someone will think you're a hypochondriac for going to the ER. Better to go and find out there's nothing wrong than to not go and end up seriously ill.

Don't stress yourself out about everything you "need" to do. Your health should come before everything else

Get well soon Sweetie! :)

I demand you wait with the PMs untill you feel better !
my pm will be there waiting and so will i with patience :)
my number one concern is that you feel good.. so rest and feel better and let the PMs wait :cool:

sad u had so much bad luck.. i wish u better luck next week :) u deserve the best and being healthy

danielle.... i am sorry you are feeling so rotten... i understand migraines... i do get them... as for getting things checked out, it is better to get something like that checked. its ok not being a social butterfly. i know i am not one, very shy in groups.
i really hope you feel better soon and the PMs will be there when you feel up to it. just know we are thinking of you.

#1 Thing right now is you getting better all else can sit till you are better.We are not going to die if we have to wate a day to two to hear from you .

If some one walkes up to you and you dont know what to say just flash your boobs they will loos every thought they had and walk away mezmarised! :D

Hope you are feeling better!

You know that guy at parties standing over by the potted plants listening to everything the philodendron & potted palm have to say? That isn't me--I didn't even show up. :o

Its better to get the noodle-oodle-ohs checked out when they're bugging you. I used to get these terrible headaches, and we know where that got me!

As for PMs and such, you'll figure out what you need to do--maybe tying a bandana tight around your head will help (Uncle Fester got his headaches taken care of in that nice, big vice; and Gomez got his back straightened out on a bed of nails, so what do they know?!?).

Just keep it as low as you can, keep out of the nose as much as you can, and keep out of the light, even the PC screen, as much as you can, and hope you feel better soon. Oh, and don't smile! :D

My week was bad too. My mom past wed. after being sick for a while. You get better , I'm sure they can behave for a few days.

hope you feel better soon
 

Danielle, hope you are feeling better and good to hear that the Dr. visit however stressful and anxious it was turned out ok. And don't worry about the forum and getting the migraine. It sounds like a stressful week for you and this may have unfortunately contributed to the migraine. Make sure you are eating or trying to eat healthy and drinking plenty of water. And plenty of rest. Try to relax and de-stress the best you can. And know that we are all hoping and wishing you the best and no need to worry about us here, we can all wait for replies. (make sure mine's first though..jk)

And Missy sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. Our hearts go out to you in this difficult time too.