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Some times I don't get this forum, it's a PRON forum, the whole thing about it is a forum when you talk about sex and other thing's to do with sex, some people call it a pu**y some call it a c**t, and so on really on the bigger pic dose it reall matter

Just because it is a porn forum it doesn't mean you have to be rude, crude or vuglar to be noticed.

i agree...this is not a social PG forum, we watch porn & adult stuff then why some people show hypocracy. Asking about removing the question on using specific word is totally out of sense when WE ARE ACTUALLY SEEING IT.

You don't have to do porn to be noticed, but porn stars do, isn't porn "rude, crude or vuglar"? ;)

This is so right, (Please don't use the word c**t or p***y as I don't like to hear it) and then you watch Danielle putting every thing she can in to it, you don't like the words but you like to watch it being f**ked.

It's a PRON FORUM, it all rude, crude or vuglar, you have to except people being rude, crude or vuglar, other wise, the forum need to be taken down as it's hypocritical IMO ;)

Porn isn't just porn. There are many shades of it: Tasty, artfull porn, mainstream "wham-bam-thank-you-mam" porn, and downright dirty, degratory porn, just to name a few.

We don't want this forum to turn into "just another porn forum".
You can discuss the topic at hand without getting vulgar or degratory.
Try to keep it tastefull and respecting, just like Danielle's and Rob's sites are.

I understand everyone's point here. We should all be respectful of each other. This is an adult forum, so content and language is going to be tolerated a little more. I was censored in a writing class in college for my content and lanuage. From that experience, I've learned that it comes down to target audience. Of course we wouldn't be talking like this in church or an elementry school. We are all adults here and should know what is going to offend someone compared to just using a profane word here and there.

On a side note, I've used some vulgar terms here in the forums, but haven't been flagged by an administrator. I've referred to my penis as "junk" and said "giving him jump" to be meant as offering sex. I believe it all comes down to our social norms on what is considered to be acceptable and unacceptable forms of behavior.

I'm not sure that I'd call this forum or Danielle's site Porn. Definitely Adult but in my opinion not Porn. Also Danielle has been asked what her preferences are as to what her vulva should be called. She preferred "down there" So following her lead and trying to be polite and respectful to all is the way to go.

My opinion for what it's worth. lol

e83

Knowing this, wouldn't you say that "Porn" is what this forum, and what Danielle's saite and FTVGrils site is all about?

As a side: I'm not hating anyone I'm just posting's my thought's.

I don't understand what all the fuss is about. Yes enigma we do understand that this is a "pron" forum and generally nobody gets censored here. I was asked a question and I answered it. I don't like the word c@nt. Big deal! I never told anyone that they can't use that word. I just said that I don't like that word, just like I don't like the "n" word, or sand"n" word, or any other racial slurs like that. My friend Dallas doesn't like the word "moist" but she doesn't go off the deep end when people use it around her.

Well I think you need to take a chill, this thread was started by Anorre, from post's that was made in a different thread, if you knew this you would see why it's started this whole thing off

Hear is the post's, from your question thread:
As he was quoting this:
To witch Anoree said this:
As you can see Anoree is saying that somthing would have happened if he did write out the word
But like you said:
"I was asked a question and I answered it. I don't like the word c@nt. Big deal! I never told anyone that they can't use that word."

As for not being able to say the word c**t, this has been said on this forum many times that you your self didn't want people saying it.

I would also like to qoute myself "I'm not hating anyone I'm just posting's my thought's" this is still true.

At the end of the day Danielle, when people give you crap for doing porn (which you have said they do) you stand up for what you believe is right and true in your own opinion, well this is what I am doing now, fare is fare.

To all the mod's Danielle has said "I never told anyone that they can't use that word" so as Danielle and Rob are the true admin's on this forum, also that the forum comes from the link (http://danielleftv.com/forum). Danielle said we can use it, then I feel there should be no one stoping it being used.

As a side: I can so see this post being deleted, and/or me being banned for standing up to Danielle

I'm just wondering why we can't swear. We're all adults here.

Okay, Before this turns into a heated debate, Danielle makes a good point and so does enigma2. Danielle does not like the "C" word, we got that. Porn is what it is be it tasteful, be it art, it is still porn. We are adults we chose to be here. There is a right way and a wrong way to use ANY word or words whether we like the word itself or not. (other than racial slurs.) Danielle gave us this forum and she can take it away so i would just say, Use your best judgment when posting on the forum. I don't like the word "Ford." or "Bush" for that matter. :cool:

I don't think is an issue with swearing but rather the way certain words are perceived. some one called you rude, it affects you a certain way. they call you an a#@hole and that affects you a different way. plus who it comes from and they way its delivered will also affect how you would take any of those words. since things here are written it is very easy to take offense to things. plus certain words might be considered "dirtier" than others. i honestly don't care what you say however i think that you for the sake of keeping things friendly, instead of arguing over what words we can and can't use we just follow the terminology that is already used on the site.

For what it's worth, I doubt you'll find ANY woman who likes the "c" word. It's just one of those hot button words that's universally offensive. Probably because it's usually used as a put-down, as in "stupid c**t" or "filthy c**t"

I believe one of the best things about this forum is the ability of the members to discuss sexual topics without having to resort to offensive lanugage.

Just where, exactly, on a woman's body would you find her "Ford"? :D

You hate my favorite word in the english language?

You're in with me. I hate Fords, and George Bush was one of the worst presidents America has ever seen.

I don't see why Danielle should chill down. You are the one heating up the discussion.
I saw this topic turn into a debate, so I moved the posts out into an own thread. This doesn't belong in the question thread.

You didn't notice the winking smiley at my post, did you?

If you can use that word in a respectful way, then please do so.
It usually is used in a demeaning way, which is what we don't want to see here.

While we should all be adults here, we should keep in mind that this forum is open to be read by anyone. I've seen some of our posts pop up at google searches. :eek:
Some of the ever present guests of this forum are in fact search engine indexing bots.

Just because we're all adults here, we don't have to use good manners? Hmm...

Actually, it is because we are all adults here we don't need to swear. Only children and adolescents do (and those who have never outgrown that phase of course). The people who do that have a fundamental lack of maturity, which then gets expressed through swearing and other sorts of childish behaviours.

What a load of crap, if swaring shows lack or maturity, how do you explain childern not swaring, most of them know how to, maturity comes with age as they say, but guess what we have people running the world that we put in power they still swaar, dose this mean thay have a lack of maturity, no it dosen't, you may as well have just said that swearing is a sign of limited vocabulary, just to say swearing isn't, it's a sign of how you chose to speak, nothing more nothing less.


@ Anoree, I did see the wink, but as for google bot's, tell me forum's that don't have then, it's so the site can be indexed, just like FTV, the point you made about some of the post's being shown in google search, if the post's are shown on google search, don't you think the pic are as well, if it's a problem with that anyone can see the forum, again they can all so see the pic's.

Now just to point out, in some places it is illeagal so show pron to a miner:
Google bot's index
the index is show on the search
anyone can see the search
think of it that way, there is no warning on the home page saying you have to be over 18, and most cases you don't need one, but before we go there saying it's an open forum and so on, let's look at it from that side

I was not asking for that question to be removed, just saying if i was admin i would have removed it.

I'm a member of several other adult forums where the c word and other words like that are allowable and in my opinion could cause ructions between members and i wouldn't like that to happen here, i wanna make friends not enemies.

Danielle's site just doesn't fit my personal definition of "Porn". I see the word porn as a negative. If I'm offended then it's porn. Just my way of looking at it. lol

e83 :eek:

I don't think there's any fuss, just a variety of ways at looking at things. I find it quite interesting. Good Thread. :)

Danielle, Sorry I was just using your preference for certain terms as an example

e83 :eek:

Seeing as it was I who generated all this uproar, I'd just like to make a couple of things clear:

1. I haven't read through all the past threads on this forum, so I didn't know Danielle didn't like That Word; if I had known, there would have been no need to ask in the first place.

2. I only ever use the word in its original sense - female genitalia (which, if we're honest, is what most people go to porn sites to find) - and I would never use it as an insult against someone, still less against a woman, and yet further less against Danielle.

Danielle doesn't like the word. Fine. That's all I was asking in the first place!

I find it so much harder to communicate w/o hearing the tones of voice and the facial expressions to go with it. We seem to have a lot more misunderstandings this way. :)

e83 :eek:

That's funny, i like that:)

I have never told anyone that they couldn't say something or use a certain word. I've never censored anyone on here. BTW I said I don't like the "c" word...I didn't say that nobody could use it though. This thread will be closed because honestly I think it's just causing trouble. Enigma2 you said your part, you "stood" up to me. Now can we please go back to talking about naked girls and masturbating :D.