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[Dilbert49]

Originally Posted by Natal

I'm not so sure about that....I think most parents would have a much more negative response about sons doing porn than their daughters. While it is seen as quasi acceptable for girls to do modeling of one form or another, it is usually seen as a shameful career for a guy (even mainstream modeling).

I don't think most parents would be happy about having a son/daughter in porn, but I think the reaction would be much more negative to have a daughter in porn.

Of course, a whole other conversation could be had about how one might react upon logging into a favored porn site only to see their daughter, mother, sister, niece, cousin, (:::shudder:: in the coming attractions!

[Natal]

Well, think of it this way (how the average family probably reacts):

Daughter walks down the catwalk - OK; Son walks down the catwalk not so good, but OK.

Next step: Daughter poses for Playboy - not so good, but OK; Son poses for Playgirl - definitely not OK, but they'll get used to it.

Next step: Daughter acts in adult movie - definitely not OK, but they'll get used to it; Son acts in an adult movie - they have a son?

[Dilbert49]

Originally Posted by Natal

Well, think of it this way (how the average family probably reacts):

Daughter walks down the catwalk - OK; Son walks down the catwalk not so good, but OK.

Next step: Daughter poses for Playboy - not so good, but OK; Son poses for Playgirl - definitely not OK, but they'll get used to it.

Next step: Daughter acts in adult movie - definitely not OK, but they'll get used to it; Son acts in an adult movie - they have a son?

I have to wonder, though, whether most parents would ever get used to having a daughter making adult movies. Seems to me it might be easier to get used to a son in porn, but a daughter seems to be on a whole other level. And, yes, I do realize this is a sexist view, but haven't we always had that view? Our daughters need to stay virgins, but we're sometimes proud of our sons' "conquests."

[tigger]

I would definetly not want Sarah doing an adult web sight. she is already sexualy active and im not too happy about that, but she is 17 and has a mind of her own. they do grow up too fast.

[danielle_ftv]

Originally Posted by tigger

I would definetly not want Sarah doing an adult web sight. she is already sexualy active and im not too happy about that, but she is 17 and has a mind of her own. they do grow up too fast.

Well that's awesome that she feels comfortable enough to talk to you about being sexually active...means you are doing a good job

[tigger]

Originally Posted by danielle_ftv

well that's awesome that she feels comfortable enough to talk to you about being sexually active...means you are doing a good job :d

god i hope so. After loosing her mom we became vary close. She tells me just about everything, i know about all her girlfriends problems. Lol im still trying to get used to the boyfriend thing. But i was her age once and i wasnt a saint eather. Its hard when its your little girl that isnt so little any more. Amanda is more than happy to let me know when to back off and let sarah make her own mistakes. But its not easy.

[DWM222]

Originally Posted by tigger

god i hope so. After loosing her mom we became vary close. She tells me just about everything, i know about all her girlfriends problems. Lol im still trying to get used to the boyfriend thing. But i was her age once and i wasnt a saint eather. Its hard when its your little girl that isnt so little any more. Amanda is more than happy to let me know when to back off and let sarah make her own mistakes. But its not easy.

I would agree with Danielle that you are doing a good job Tigger, I know the signs..I am a single father with a daughter also... I have to say the biggest challenge of my life & also the most rewarding..One day soon I'll share some of the story...it might be a bit boring to someone who hasn't been there, and Rob might need to add some server space (long also) but the outcome has made me "The Luckiest Man Alive"..

& for Danielle & the other ladies in the adult modeling world..Love your work.. you are all very beautiful and much appreciated so don't let anyone give you any crap about it (I've got a couple of stories about that too)...& the teaser on that is...my daughter's mother was a nude model when we met...& I married her..