Double standards about pornography

Max · 05-15-2010, 05:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Woody

So Mum & Dad found out and now she won't be working in porn anymore?

Some girls will say they do porn for themselfs but when someone like there parents finds out they stop and that's the end of that!

And yeah of course some parents won't understand!

I like porn and i like FTV! So i see all the good stuff that comes with it! Like the outdoor stuff!!

But some parents will just see there daughters doing porn and all the bad stuff what comes with it!! Like there daughters masturbating in public!!

But i think there is just as many parents out there who respects there daughters chose in career!!

Ron Jeremy, the king of porn himself, said that there is a double standard here. It's OK for our sons to do it but not our daughters. This is one reason I have a double standard for fathers. When I see a boy's father, I think "Wow, this guy is a great role model, he's doing a good job raising his son, I salute him." When I see a girls father, I think "Wow, this guy has the nerve to yell at a guy for sleeping with his daughter, and doesn't say a damn thing to her. What an ***." Sometimes I think to myself "You're not a father, until you have a son." This leads me to believe that Rob has been yelled at by several parents. Note that I do not have a sister and this is just what I observe.
Something that is even sadder is that I live with people in the dorm (not my parents) that have a problem with just masturbation period. They said that they would spank their sons for looking up porn, or even just masturbating. I told them "That's very Christian of you, believe what I say or I'll assault you." They didn't get that. I told them that my parents have raised 2 male children and are now quite aware that it is normal for your son to view porn, they were freaked out at first, but now they are understanding of both me and my brother (even though he does a better job of covering it up than I do.) There are just some things in this world that piss me off, and this is one of them.

P.S. I am wondering why the moderators remove swear words here. We're all adults here, what's the problem, I had some places here where I wanted to swear? also I'm sorry if this is a rant and if it is off topic.

Woody · 05-15-2010, 05:59 AM

What??? And what's that got to do with my message?

Max · 05-15-2010, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Woody

What??? And what's that got to do with my message?

It has to do with the fact that girls can't do porn, but guys can. Most parents are not accepting of it.

Woody · 05-15-2010, 06:52 PM

Boys & girls can do porn!!

When the parents finds out it's then upto them to either accept what there son or daughter does for a living! And if they don't accept it! Well then they don't!

Max you didn't need to quote my messages! So by all means have your little rant but how about just getting your message across instead of using mine!

And i will apologise now for going off topic!

Woody · 05-16-2010, 07:51 AM

So by the look of the polls at the momemt guys have no problem watching other peoples daughters or sons do porn!!

It's when there own gets in porn then thats just wrong!!

That is a just the way it is!! It's a funny world out there!

Anoree · 05-16-2010, 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Woody

So by the look of the polls at the momemt guys have no problem watching other peoples daughters or sons do porn!!

It's when there own gets in porn then thats just wrong!!

That is a just the way it is!! It's a funny world out there!

Maybe it's a kind of parental protection reflex. (We know Porn can be a very hard business.) I think it might even have subconcious roots. Most parents don't like the idea of their children, especially daughters, to be sexually active outside an approved relationship.

The social background may also have an influence: "What if Aunt Suzy/my coworkers/Mrs Parker down the street/Priest Simmons finds out?"

Woody · 05-16-2010, 11:49 AM

Hey Anoree!

Yeah i think your right there! Like i said before i like porn! But to a lot of people porn is just something they wouldn't want there sons or daughters ever doing!

I guess in some parents eyes they bring there kids up and puts them through school so they can get a good education so they can find a good job in the future!

So when they find out that there son or daughter has done porn it probably will be a bit of a kick in the balls for them!

But the only thing i will say is! Because porn is so big now and so many people do get in to it! Porn is a very big business! So maybe and just maybe the parents can see it as just another career choice!

Because as we all know there is bad porn out there and there is good porn out there!

mart · 05-16-2010, 01:13 PM

Well in my opinion i think this could a be a very tricky poll, as in all parents are different and of cause are gonna have their own views on pornography. Maybe based on their religion as well.

I didn't vote, purely because i don't have kids and i don't think i could decide either way.

I do find this thread interesting and the posts of opinions.

Max · 05-16-2010, 03:20 PM

All I can say is that I don't plan on having kids, because I hate kids and couldn't care less. But there are people that I have to live with that have a problem with the fact that I like to look at porn. The double standard seems like it's that people might care about their daughters more than their sons. People are more protective of girls, when boys are 6 times more likely to be murdered. But back to porn, it really should depend on the type of porn that they do. Or if they are yelled at it should be because they might have a hard time getting a job (and being in porn in years past affects job performance how?)

Woody · 05-16-2010, 07:09 PM

And without quoting me! I like it!

But does it really depend on the type of porn they do? Maybe?

I know alot of you guys like the FTV kind of porn but not other types like anything to do with hardcore!

And that's a double standard right there!

Dilbert49 · 05-16-2010, 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Woody

And without quoting me! I like it!

But does it really depend on the type of porn they do? Maybe?

I know alot of you guys like the FTV kind of porn but not other types like anything to do with hardcore!

And that's a double standard right there!

I don't see that as a double standard. It's just preference. I like boy-girl but don't care for anal. It's just my preference. To call that a double standard would require labeling a lot of things as "double standards" - blonde vs. brunette, shaved vs. hairy, etc.

Woody · 05-17-2010, 03:48 AM

You don't see a double standard here? Where some guys will say it's wrong for a model to do hardcore but then it's ok for the same model to do what she does on FTV?

So is that just preference or a double standard?

Dilbert49 · 05-17-2010, 04:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Woody

So is that just preference or a double standard?

To me, it's a double standard to say that a woman is "wrong" to do one thing versus another. But for what I choose to watch, it's preference. I prefer to not watch scenes with anal in them but I don't feel that the model is "wrong" for making participating in such a scene (so long as the activity is legal).

Woody · 05-17-2010, 04:31 AM

And that's my point!! Some guys on here do think it's wrong for a model to do something that they don't like when at the end of the day it's upto the model what she does!!

I like hardcore & softcore! So i say let the model do what she likes! And if you don't like something she does then just don't watch it!

But don't say it's wrong or a bad career choice! Which some do!

Enigma · 05-18-2010, 12:29 AM

they way to look at it is like this, to do porn that we watch you need a man and a woman (forgetting any sort of gay porn and lesbian) so if a womans dad watches porn, he is watching some ones daughter, it's a tad silly to then say his daughter can't do it.

So, the point is this we are all some ones kid's, male or female.

View Poll Results: Is it OK for our kids to do porn?
Yes, for our son(s)	2	25.00%
Yes, for our daughter(s)	2	25.00%
No, for neither	2	25.00%
It's OK for me to watch, but not for my kids to watch	3	37.50%
They can watch it, but not do it.	1	12.50%
How dare you ask?!	1	12.50%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 8. You may not vote on this poll

05-15-2010, 05:59 AM	#2
Woody In Love with Danielle Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: UK Posts: 149	What??? And what's that got to do with my message? Last edited by Woody; 05-15-2010 at 07:30 AM.

05-15-2010, 06:52 PM	#4
Woody In Love with Danielle Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: UK Posts: 149	Boys & girls can do porn!! When the parents finds out it's then upto them to either accept what there son or daughter does for a living! And if they don't accept it! Well then they don't! Max you didn't need to quote my messages! So by all means have your little rant but how about just getting your message across instead of using mine! And i will apologise now for going off topic! Last edited by Woody; 05-15-2010 at 07:23 PM.

05-16-2010, 07:51 AM	#5
Woody In Love with Danielle Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: UK Posts: 149	So by the look of the polls at the momemt guys have no problem watching other peoples daughters or sons do porn!! It's when there own gets in porn then thats just wrong!! That is a just the way it is!! It's a funny world out there! Last edited by Woody; 05-16-2010 at 08:05 AM.

05-16-2010, 01:13 PM	#8
mart Danielle's Only True Love Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Garden of England, Kent Posts: 2,189	Well in my opinion i think this could a be a very tricky poll, as in all parents are different and of cause are gonna have their own views on pornography. Maybe based on their religion as well. I didn't vote, purely because i don't have kids and i don't think i could decide either way. I do find this thread interesting and the posts of opinions. __________________ If You Don't Ask, You Don't Get

05-16-2010, 11:49 AM	#7
Woody In Love with Danielle Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: UK Posts: 149	Hey Anoree! Yeah i think your right there! Like i said before i like porn! But to a lot of people porn is just something they wouldn't want there sons or daughters ever doing! I guess in some parents eyes they bring there kids up and puts them through school so they can get a good education so they can find a good job in the future! So when they find out that there son or daughter has done porn it probably will be a bit of a kick in the balls for them! But the only thing i will say is! Because porn is so big now and so many people do get in to it! Porn is a very big business! So maybe and just maybe the parents can see it as just another career choice! Because as we all know there is bad porn out there and there is good porn out there!

05-16-2010, 03:20 PM	#9
Max Danielle's Imaginary Boyfriend Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Nashville, TN Posts: 769	All I can say is that I don't plan on having kids, because I hate kids and couldn't care less. But there are people that I have to live with that have a problem with the fact that I like to look at porn. The double standard seems like it's that people might care about their daughters more than their sons. People are more protective of girls, when boys are 6 times more likely to be murdered. But back to porn, it really should depend on the type of porn that they do. Or if they are yelled at it should be because they might have a hard time getting a job (and being in porn in years past affects job performance how?)

05-16-2010, 07:09 PM	#10
Woody In Love with Danielle Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: UK Posts: 149	And without quoting me! I like it! But does it really depend on the type of porn they do? Maybe? I know alot of you guys like the FTV kind of porn but not other types like anything to do with hardcore! And that's a double standard right there!

05-17-2010, 03:48 AM	#12
Woody In Love with Danielle Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: UK Posts: 149	You don't see a double standard here? Where some guys will say it's wrong for a model to do hardcore but then it's ok for the same model to do what she does on FTV? So is that just preference or a double standard?

05-17-2010, 04:31 AM	#14
Woody In Love with Danielle Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: UK Posts: 149	And that's my point!! Some guys on here do think it's wrong for a model to do something that they don't like when at the end of the day it's upto the model what she does!! I like hardcore & softcore! So i say let the model do what she likes! And if you don't like something she does then just don't watch it! But don't say it's wrong or a bad career choice! Which some do!

05-18-2010, 12:29 AM	#15
Enigma Danielle's Biggest Fan Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 272	they way to look at it is like this, to do porn that we watch you need a man and a woman (forgetting any sort of gay porn and lesbian) so if a womans dad watches porn, he is watching some ones daughter, it's a tad silly to then say his daughter can't do it. So, the point is this we are all some ones kid's, male or female.