Drama and stress. Only my strength,...

Anoree · 07-11-2009, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by ugo

I don't understand. What people reason to his way of provocation and humiliation toward the truest people that live well and calm.
I don't understand as relatives they reason thinking that all proceeds well when I reason with the heart and brain.
Himself same cannot be been by to live well, and helping others? For the other ones is a bother!
It's really truth that cannot be lived of peace in our sick world.

I think part of it may be envy. Those people may have (had) a life where they can't (couldn't) be at peace themselves, so they won't let others have it either.
Or they're just plain evil and do it because they can and enjoy seeing others suffer.
We've got a saying in German: "Es kann der Frömmste nicht in Frieden leben, wenn es dem bösen Nachbarn nicht gefällt." (The very meekest cannot live in peace if his evil neighbour does not like it.) I think it fits here.

About your sisters I think they don't spend nearly as much time with your mother as you do, and they don't see what swayings she goes through, and what amount of effort and love you spend with her.
I hope at least your mother can let you know from time to time how much she appreciates that.

We, your friends at this forum, are proud of you.

mart · 07-11-2009, 11:24 AM

I agree with Anoree, i've never been very good with words Ugo, but i also would encourage you to get your sisters to help more Ugo. I mean families should pull together when a parent is unwell. So i guess they must have their reasons for not wanting to help, whether it's right or wrong. I really hope things improve soon my friend.

ugo · 07-11-2009, 03:43 PM

You have said well Anoree ( and Mart ) for how much likes to "bad" (wanting to call bad) the desire to do arrogance and overbearance toward those people of few words that don't give bother.
I work with my silence. But I'm prepared to whatever aspect to have a good time and speak. And when I see people that believe him to make the best (and taking advantage of the others), the anger comes me not to be respected. Unfortunately in the job there is the sore of the egoism (each wants to do what believes him).
I am still not able of to change the job (for motives various).
My sisters have a difficult character. They have "ruined" my mother, of as all the families that have problems. I have always made my part of the good sense of respect in the family. But has found the silence of my sisters that they never cared for my mother. That's why it doesn't have sense anymore collaborate. Also now I keep on making to understand them, when by now my mother "it is absent in our world." What can she understand my mother? She doesn't even know if she is living.
But my love (at times tired of the too much stress) has let my mother still live. Because the people "useless" they still have the right to way of living.
I don't have guilt of nothing. They are the others that don't want to listen to me. It is continuous to be myself, and in the respect toward the others. I imagine as the people it doesn't understand this measure of the civil value to live.
And I don't want to always be right, but I believe to be always of my good reason that I have.

07-11-2009, 11:24 AM	#2
mart Danielle's Only True Love Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Garden of England, Kent Posts: 2,189	I agree with Anoree, i've never been very good with words Ugo, but i also would encourage you to get your sisters to help more Ugo. I mean families should pull together when a parent is unwell. So i guess they must have their reasons for not wanting to help, whether it's right or wrong. I really hope things improve soon my friend. __________________ If You Don't Ask, You Don't Get

07-11-2009, 03:43 PM	#3
ugo Danielle's Future Ex-Husband Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 1,556	You have said well Anoree ( and Mart ) for how much likes to "bad" (wanting to call bad) the desire to do arrogance and overbearance toward those people of few words that don't give bother. I work with my silence. But I'm prepared to whatever aspect to have a good time and speak. And when I see people that believe him to make the best (and taking advantage of the others), the anger comes me not to be respected. Unfortunately in the job there is the sore of the egoism (each wants to do what believes him). I am still not able of to change the job (for motives various). My sisters have a difficult character. They have "ruined" my mother, of as all the families that have problems. I have always made my part of the good sense of respect in the family. But has found the silence of my sisters that they never cared for my mother. That's why it doesn't have sense anymore collaborate. Also now I keep on making to understand them, when by now my mother "it is absent in our world." What can she understand my mother? She doesn't even know if she is living. But my love (at times tired of the too much stress) has let my mother still live. Because the people "useless" they still have the right to way of living. I don't have guilt of nothing. They are the others that don't want to listen to me. It is continuous to be myself, and in the respect toward the others. I imagine as the people it doesn't understand this measure of the civil value to live. And I don't want to always be right, but I believe to be always of my good reason that I have. __________________ Hope,Love,sex : Loving a Girl.