Question Thread for Danielle

[RonTheLogician]

Hello Dani,

Some years ago when you were getting into heavy anal play and reported you were shoving some enormous objects up your a$$, I became rather concerned that you were on the road to a serious injury. I encouraged you to invest some time and money consulting with a porn player enjoying medical credentials, such as Nina Hartley, RN, to make sure that the activities you undertook could be as safe and healthy as possible.

You never replied to my entreaty, but now I have run across and viewed a sex ed video on anal play by Nina Hartley herself, published by Adam & Eve in the mid-1990s. I think it was the DVD described here.

At the end of said video, Nurse Hartley offers wholehearted endorsement of a book, whose latest version today is called Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men, Women and Couples, 4th edition (Down There Press, 2011). Find its Amazon page here. The Kindle product only costs 10 bucks.

I hope you find some time to obtain and read this book. And since this is a question thread, allow me to ask: How well are you taking care of your precious a$$ today?

Best,
RtL

[RonTheLogician]

Hey Dani,

Today I discover that the author of the aforementioned book on anal play wrote a previous book on erotic pleasure. I surely haven't had time to review it, but what is written about it appears to be of potential value to you.

The title is With Pleasure: Thoughts on the Nature of Human Sexuality, Amazon page here.

The brief Kirkus review of it in part writes this:

...while contemplating the elegance of the equation Attraction + Obstacles = Excitement, [the author] had a sudden insight: that eroticism has four cornerstones--longing and anticipation, violating prohibitions, searching for power, and overcoming ambivalence.

Most of what you sell is erotic pleasure. So it is obvious to ask if you embrace any theories about its nature and how best to create it. Have you read any books about it, such as the one above? Does anyone try to teach a class about it, either locally or online? Do you study industry products to extract such insights, rather than pick up random practical tips?

How much more business might you acquire (with proper marketing) if you found a better scheme to create sexual excitement and gratification among your clients?

Best,
RtL

[Bird]

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Danielle, what's your politics?

Moderator's note: One of our Forum policies is not to discuss politics. It's too polarizing and almost always leads to heated discussions with people calling each other names.
I've got to admit, though, that some heat would do our Forum some good, having cooled down to almost absolute zero. (A)

[danielle_ftv]

Originally Posted by Bird

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Danielle, what's your politics?

Moderator's note: One of our Forum policies is not to discuss politics. It's too polarizing and almost always leads to heated discussions with people calling each other names.
I've got to admit, though, that some heat would do our Forum some good, having cooled down to almost absolute zero. (A)

Politics and religion are two topics that I don't discuss with anyone other than my family and certain friends. As Anoree wrote, it's just far too polarizing and I would prefer to keep my forum civil

[jimbeebe@cox.net]

How old were you when you made your first x rated video

[danielle_ftv]

Originally Posted by jimbeebe@cox.net

How old were you when you made your first x rated video

I want to say I was 19 years old. Amateur Allure was my first XXX video. Big Breast Amateur Girls #12 was my second XXX video, but that wasn't released until about a year after it was shot. From what I can remember that was shot right before my first FTVGirls shoot. It would be a lot less confusing to remember when scenes were shot if the content were released directly after shooting it but most companies try to have a backlog of content and usually have updates planned months ahead of time.