A slow down in this site

danielle_ftv · 02-27-2009, 02:45 AM

I miss Ryan and everyone else who "disappeared". I also feel the same way...that things seem to be slowing down a lot. Maybe because I'm not posting as much as I used to??? who knows. But for those of you who are posting and keeping this board alive...thank you.

CK1 · 02-27-2009, 02:59 AM

part has to do with everyone has gotten to know each other and there are less of those getting to know you questions/statements. when there is an interesting post, it seems that the is more activity but after that it kind of calms down.

grande351 · 02-27-2009, 03:18 AM

It does seem to me that the number of posts have gone down. I agree with the reasons already stated. Some of the "newness" has probably worn off and there is less to talk about. If I'm home, I try to check the forum at least twice a day. If I see something interesting or a question I can help with, I'll respond. The core group (you know who you are

) seem to be the ones keeping things going. Thanks for that! There are a lot of new people who have signed up but never post.
I know life gets in the way sometimes and people have to move on, that's understandable, but this is still a great place and I'll try to do my part to help keep it that way

ask · 02-27-2009, 03:37 AM

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Originally Posted by danielle_ftv

I miss Ryan and everyone else who "disappeared". I also feel the same way...that things seem to be slowing down a lot. Maybe because I'm not posting as much as I used to??? who knows. But for those of you who are posting and keeping this board alive...thank you.

I think, no real interesting topic started for a long time. Another thing is no free sets and videos are updated now a days. I think that's why some ppl loose interest.

geolarson2 · 02-27-2009, 04:30 AM

Its funny, maybe, but I moved on to try and catch up with some other things since I last was on earlier this evening, but all the while my mind kept coming back here. Then I realized something. I go through cycles, in part at least governed by outside responsibilities/&c. and so where I once, when I had more free time, was logging on a good 2-3 times a day, now I'm more likely to find the time and peace to log on once ever 5-10 days. Now, when you consider how often I'm not on anymore (

), you might find it interesting to note that when I do come back I'm more and more intimidated by the number of new members (although many, it seems, are a bit too shy to write something, or start a fresh thread) let alone the number of new posts that have accumulated since I was last on. So, if you're checking every day, maybe twice a day, it may not seem like there's much movement, but when you are away for an extended period of time, you do see that there is still a reasonable bit of activity, just that its scattered over more threads. Maybe its just a matter of perspective ...

ugo · 02-27-2009, 11:09 AM

The phrase made by Laranger is the symbol of everyday our live.
Life is made up of excess and selfishness. In the end it collects to that which we have passed the previous day. If we are happy or unhappy.

Anyone can come to live among Computer and our live. Some are very lonely, and want to speak and hope to have fun with friends online members, or with our mistress Danielle. And Rob and Lia.

This site is very particular (I have my beautiful experience Alison's Chat).
Because there are 4 ways to spend time with Rob, Danielle, Lia and us friends members.
This is the great work done from WhyYou.
I think that the real thing that can push all of us in creating a lively pace is the lack of a brilliant expert in good words how WhyYou.
But he now has other commitments in the normal administration on this website.

I did a lot of posts from Games and Puzzles. Without these two, I would be much less.
I have not put so much to do to post. And many do not understand what I speak English.
In more, I became calm and simple. In respect of all and of Danielle.
From Alison's Chat was something else entirely. It's was only she, Alison. And many friends very capable of education and civil sense (like WhyYou).

And also to the difficult problems of my life. But everyone has their problems.
It sometimes I'm crisis from what to post on this site (like I said a sense of emptiness).

But I have lucky enough to have Mart, Tigger, Anoree and Danielle that do they have company me (And some other ).

But we have also understand that Danielle has her commitments difficult. It can not be every day with us members. They too have a life ( Danielle and others ). I always think what Alison said well, when she was always in difficult and then has left.

Danielle is doing really a incredible work to please all of us in (as the novelty of the webcam).

Rob is always busy with so many jobs and so many other girls of FTVGirls.

And even that Lia is already a great thing to be with us for Danielle's Chat.

I have many hobbies and thoughts to say and you talk with friends (as had happened to Alison's Chat). But I was afraid to overdo it and get it right, and not to ruin this new site for Danielle's Chat.

I see GeoLarson has posts threads for people who love to talk and exchange views and comments of a different theme.

But the new members want to talk and see only Danielle and Rob.
Why that is the issue that matters most to they.

That's why the site is slowing down.

And then, is a clean site. And for good friendship. It needs no advertising. It's enough of what is doing Danielle.
To become in the world porno can ruin the image of FTVGirls (and Danielle and Lia).

WhyYou · 02-27-2009, 12:16 PM

The past two months I have been very busy with the course I was taking (Professional Writing, writing intensive course). I did well for that class. I should pass with at least a B, maybe an A. Plus there was my most recent computer crisis when my power supply died. That just caused me to have evn less time to get on here. Hopefully my next class won't be so terrible (it starts on Monday).

That being said, from my own experience with Alison's message board I learned that there will be times when posting will slow down. It's like chatting on the Internet, which I have been doing since 1994. People come and go, some stay longer than others. People that stay for a while usually have some need to be there to find friendship that's missing in their lives. Eventually they learn how to make friends easier and find new friends in the real world instead of in cyberspace. Or they meet someone in person that they first met online and find that a relationship develops. And what's been missing in their life is suddenly found so they no longer have the need to get online. But new people with the need will come along and replace them and so it goes on. That cycle is what will happen here although it won't exactly be the same reasons. Life will change and people will leave and others will take their place. Some people will stay forever (like me...lol).

Ok...I'll shut up now....lol!

Anoree · 02-27-2009, 12:26 PM

I think the slowdown has a mix of reasons.

First of all the numbers of posts depend on Danielle's presence and posts. When Danielle was in Texas in November the postings came nearly to a complete stop. Everyone was waiting for her return.
Now that Danielle is back in college she has less time at hand to post here as much as she did before, and that's only natural. We knew that would come and I think we ought to fill out where we can and support Danielle.

The second point may be the current economical situation I think we more or less all suffer from, and may have other thinks we've got to take care of first in the real life. (I don't want to turn this into a political discussion, though!)

The third point may indeed be that we reached a point where the "newness" has worn off and maybe we are at a little loss at what to post now. Here's the position where the new members should come up and bring in new ideas. (Yes, that's YOU I'm writing about. You're invited to participate.

)

For myself, I'm stuck with a few projects at work that kind of suck up my time. I hope to be posting more (and do a few more photoshops) when these projects are finished.

As I said, I think the slowdown is due to a mixture of these and probably some more reasons. I do believe that we'll come over this shortage and post a bit more in the future. It may not come up to levels we had last year, but that'll be fine with me.

ugo · 02-27-2009, 12:33 PM

The story is something like Alison's Chat.

You said well, Anoree.

eastbill · 02-27-2009, 03:19 PM

I have found that on two other message boards i am on that it is very cyclical. sometimes the posts are down and seem dead. then a bunch come in liven it up again.
sort of how life goes... you get stuck doing things... then you realize your gone and come back. I know for me... i do check here everyday... too bad i cant come in here while at work(actually probably good i would not get work done... looking at Danielle all day) I enjoy it and know that somedays it will be a bunch of posts and some days not.
Either way... i still love this place. And who could not love Danielle...she is beautifully amazing.

02-27-2009, 02:45 AM	#1
danielle_ftv Administrator Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Phoenix, Arizona Posts: 3,321	I miss Ryan and everyone else who "disappeared". I also feel the same way...that things seem to be slowing down a lot. Maybe because I'm not posting as much as I used to??? who knows. But for those of you who are posting and keeping this board alive...thank you. __________________ XOXO Danielle FTV

02-27-2009, 04:30 AM	#5
geolarson2 Danielle's Imaginary Boyfriend Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 512	Its funny, maybe, but I moved on to try and catch up with some other things since I last was on earlier this evening, but all the while my mind kept coming back here. Then I realized something. I go through cycles, in part at least governed by outside responsibilities/&c. and so where I once, when I had more free time, was logging on a good 2-3 times a day, now I'm more likely to find the time and peace to log on once ever 5-10 days. Now, when you consider how often I'm not on anymore (), you might find it interesting to note that when I do come back I'm more and more intimidated by the number of new members (although many, it seems, are a bit too shy to write something, or start a fresh thread) let alone the number of new posts that have accumulated since I was last on. So, if you're checking every day, maybe twice a day, it may not seem like there's much movement, but when you are away for an extended period of time, you do see that there is still a reasonable bit of activity, just that its scattered over more threads. Maybe its just a matter of perspective ...

02-27-2009, 11:09 AM	#6
ugo Danielle's Future Ex-Husband Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 1,556	The phrase made by Laranger is the symbol of everyday our live. Life is made up of excess and selfishness. In the end it collects to that which we have passed the previous day. If we are happy or unhappy. Anyone can come to live among Computer and our live. Some are very lonely, and want to speak and hope to have fun with friends online members, or with our mistress Danielle. And Rob and Lia. This site is very particular (I have my beautiful experience Alison's Chat). Because there are 4 ways to spend time with Rob, Danielle, Lia and us friends members. This is the great work done from WhyYou. I think that the real thing that can push all of us in creating a lively pace is the lack of a brilliant expert in good words how WhyYou. But he now has other commitments in the normal administration on this website. I did a lot of posts from Games and Puzzles. Without these two, I would be much less. I have not put so much to do to post. And many do not understand what I speak English. In more, I became calm and simple. In respect of all and of Danielle. From Alison's Chat was something else entirely. It's was only she, Alison. And many friends very capable of education and civil sense (like WhyYou). And also to the difficult problems of my life. But everyone has their problems. It sometimes I'm crisis from what to post on this site (like I said a sense of emptiness). But I have lucky enough to have Mart, Tigger, Anoree and Danielle that do they have company me (And some other ). But we have also understand that Danielle has her commitments difficult. It can not be every day with us members. They too have a life ( Danielle and others ). I always think what Alison said well, when she was always in difficult and then has left. Danielle is doing really a incredible work to please all of us in (as the novelty of the webcam). Rob is always busy with so many jobs and so many other girls of FTVGirls. And even that Lia is already a great thing to be with us for Danielle's Chat. I have many hobbies and thoughts to say and you talk with friends (as had happened to Alison's Chat). But I was afraid to overdo it and get it right, and not to ruin this new site for Danielle's Chat. I see GeoLarson has posts threads for people who love to talk and exchange views and comments of a different theme. But the new members want to talk and see only Danielle and Rob. Why that is the issue that matters most to they. That's why the site is slowing down. And then, is a clean site. And for good friendship. It needs no advertising. It's enough of what is doing Danielle. To become in the world porno can ruin the image of FTVGirls (and Danielle and Lia). __________________ Hope,Love,sex : Loving a Girl. Last edited by ugo; 02-27-2009 at 11:20 AM.

02-27-2009, 12:16 PM	#7
WhyYou Lead Moderator (deceased) Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Joplin, Missouri Posts: 829	The past two months I have been very busy with the course I was taking (Professional Writing, writing intensive course). I did well for that class. I should pass with at least a B, maybe an A. Plus there was my most recent computer crisis when my power supply died. That just caused me to have evn less time to get on here. Hopefully my next class won't be so terrible (it starts on Monday). That being said, from my own experience with Alison's message board I learned that there will be times when posting will slow down. It's like chatting on the Internet, which I have been doing since 1994. People come and go, some stay longer than others. People that stay for a while usually have some need to be there to find friendship that's missing in their lives. Eventually they learn how to make friends easier and find new friends in the real world instead of in cyberspace. Or they meet someone in person that they first met online and find that a relationship develops. And what's been missing in their life is suddenly found so they no longer have the need to get online. But new people with the need will come along and replace them and so it goes on. That cycle is what will happen here although it won't exactly be the same reasons. Life will change and people will leave and others will take their place. Some people will stay forever (like me...lol). Ok...I'll shut up now....lol! __________________ It's what's inside that counts the most

02-27-2009, 12:26 PM	#8
Anoree Moderator Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Germany Posts: 2,015	I think the slowdown has a mix of reasons. First of all the numbers of posts depend on Danielle's presence and posts. When Danielle was in Texas in November the postings came nearly to a complete stop. Everyone was waiting for her return. Now that Danielle is back in college she has less time at hand to post here as much as she did before, and that's only natural. We knew that would come and I think we ought to fill out where we can and support Danielle. The second point may be the current economical situation I think we more or less all suffer from, and may have other thinks we've got to take care of first in the real life. (I don't want to turn this into a political discussion, though!) The third point may indeed be that we reached a point where the "newness" has worn off and maybe we are at a little loss at what to post now. Here's the position where the new members should come up and bring in new ideas. (Yes, that's YOU I'm writing about. You're invited to participate. ) For myself, I'm stuck with a few projects at work that kind of suck up my time. I hope to be posting more (and do a few more photoshops) when these projects are finished. As I said, I think the slowdown is due to a mixture of these and probably some more reasons. I do believe that we'll come over this shortage and post a bit more in the future. It may not come up to levels we had last year, but that'll be fine with me. Last edited by Anoree; 02-27-2009 at 12:29 PM.

02-27-2009, 02:59 AM	#2
CK1 Danielle's Biggest Fan Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Near Orlando, Fl Posts: 468	part has to do with everyone has gotten to know each other and there are less of those getting to know you questions/statements. when there is an interesting post, it seems that the is more activity but after that it kind of calms down.

02-27-2009, 03:18 AM	#3
grande351 Danielle's Imaginary Boyfriend Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Baltimore, Maryland Posts: 876	It does seem to me that the number of posts have gone down. I agree with the reasons already stated. Some of the "newness" has probably worn off and there is less to talk about. If I'm home, I try to check the forum at least twice a day. If I see something interesting or a question I can help with, I'll respond. The core group (you know who you are ) seem to be the ones keeping things going. Thanks for that! There are a lot of new people who have signed up but never post. I know life gets in the way sometimes and people have to move on, that's understandable, but this is still a great place and I'll try to do my part to help keep it that way

02-27-2009, 12:33 PM	#9
ugo Danielle's Future Ex-Husband Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 1,556	The story is something like Alison's Chat. You said well, Anoree. __________________ Hope,Love,sex : Loving a Girl.

02-27-2009, 03:19 PM	#10
eastbill Danielle's Biggest Fan Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: New Jersey Posts: 283	I have found that on two other message boards i am on that it is very cyclical. sometimes the posts are down and seem dead. then a bunch come in liven it up again. sort of how life goes... you get stuck doing things... then you realize your gone and come back. I know for me... i do check here everyday... too bad i cant come in here while at work(actually probably good i would not get work done... looking at Danielle all day) I enjoy it and know that somedays it will be a bunch of posts and some days not. Either way... i still love this place. And who could not love Danielle...she is beautifully amazing.