Replies To Danielle's Journal and Video Logs

tigger · 03-30-2009, 11:19 PM

No worries we will survive. school is important.

captnjack · 03-31-2009, 01:28 AM

I am sure we all understand that some days there just isn't enough time to do everything we want to get accomplished. I have always hated moving also it is such a pain. I rented for 13 years and when I did move all I had to show for 13 years of rent payments was $150 security depoist that I got back. I own my house now it is not much but it's mine. If it were my decision I would and stay and try to save enough money for downpayment on a house of your own.

grande351 · 03-31-2009, 04:35 AM

You're doing a great job of dealing with your responsibilities. Focus on what's most important, school, family...etc. If that means you can't post as much as before, it's alright.

Sorry you didn't make it up to Portland. I hope you're feeling better now.

I've read that the Phoenix area has one of the most depressed housing markets in the country right now. That's bad news for the folks selling homes, but potentially good news for you. You might want to consider taking the plunge and buying a home if you feel you can afford it. There are some serious bargains out there. Just be careful and don't get in over your head.

Anoree · 04-03-2009, 09:28 PM

I am truly sorry that this has been a week of bad luck for you.

For the webcam session, it's no big deal. We were pretty content just chatting with you. You could just as easily have called the session off completely, we would have understood.

For the ER visit, I'd rather go there more than once with the result "all OK" than avoiding it and be struck with something severe. You're definitely not hypochondric in my eyes. From what I read about the migraine, the pulsing feeling in your veins could have been the prodomal phase of your migraine already.

The missed class and the math test are less important than your health, I think. I wouldn't be too worried about them. I'm sure you can catch up later on.

That the migraine hit you right on the date of the Phoenix Forum is bad, bad luck in deed. I know you looked forward to the Forum. Dragging yourself out to the Forum with the migraine still going on won't help it at all. What you need right now is a silent, dark room where you can relax and wait for the migraine attack to pass, just the opposite of what the Phoenix Forum has to offer, I think. I'm sure Lia and Tate would understand. I doubt anybody would think you flaked out. I'm just sorry about the missed opportunities of the Forum, but those fall minor to your health.

I wish I could do something to help you through the migraine right now, like surely most of your other fans do, too.
I hope you already feel better when you read this.

Geezer · 04-03-2009, 09:41 PM

Hey D,

I hope you are feeling better by the time you read this. I noticed you also commented on Facebook and I left you a one line note of encouragement.

I read about all of the stuff you are trying to do and it would give ME a migraine, as well. You are just buried under so many responsibilities and I don't think anyone could keep up with your schedule. Maybe you have to have a deep conversation with yourself and put your priorities in order.

Definitely, school IS important. If it means less updates here and not replying to PMs, so be it. I doubt that you are making any serious money here, with memberships, anyway. You have about 800-900 forum members but how many really pay the fee to join your pay site? Do what is best for YOU. Try to relax and find time to "just be!" No one wants you to be sick nor unhappy. Just realize you can only do so much and stay within your own limits.

CK1 · 04-03-2009, 11:16 PM

sorry about the bad luck. but i am sure it will turn around.

first, webcam show was fun. it was great to just be able to talk.

second, i am sure if you talk to your teacher and show him the ER bill, paperwork, etc. she/he will be willing to work with you. and i am sure you did better than you think but maybe not as good as you wished.

Take care of your self first. we can wait and we understand...

Ck

grande351 · 04-03-2009, 11:39 PM

Danielle,
Sorry your not feeling well. I hope you're better soon. The webcam was very enjoyable. You shouldn't feel that you have to perform for us every time. I find it just as enjoyable chatting with you. Judging from the other comments I've read, I'm not alone in that.

I don't get migranes often but I've had a few in my life and they can be absolutely debilitating. I wouldn't wish those on my worst enemy! Please don't worry about missing a class or two, or that someone will think you're a hypochondriac for going to the ER. Better to go and find out there's nothing wrong than to not go and end up seriously ill.

Don't stress yourself out about everything you "need" to do. Your health should come before everything else

Get well soon Sweetie!

03-30-2009, 11:19 PM	#1
tigger Danielle's Future Ex-Husband Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: out yonder way! Posts: 1,093	No worries we will survive. school is important. __________________ IF YOU SEE ME RUNNING YOU BETTER BE RIGHT BEHIND ME!!!!

03-31-2009, 01:28 AM	#2
captnjack Danielle's Imaginary Boyfriend Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: 3rd rock from the sun Posts: 818	I am sure we all understand that some days there just isn't enough time to do everything we want to get accomplished. I have always hated moving also it is such a pain. I rented for 13 years and when I did move all I had to show for 13 years of rent payments was $150 security depoist that I got back. I own my house now it is not much but it's mine. If it were my decision I would and stay and try to save enough money for downpayment on a house of your own. __________________ But in your dreams whatever they may be Dream a little dream of me

03-31-2009, 04:35 AM	#3
grande351 Danielle's Imaginary Boyfriend Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Baltimore, Maryland Posts: 876	You're doing a great job of dealing with your responsibilities. Focus on what's most important, school, family...etc. If that means you can't post as much as before, it's alright. Sorry you didn't make it up to Portland. I hope you're feeling better now. I've read that the Phoenix area has one of the most depressed housing markets in the country right now. That's bad news for the folks selling homes, but potentially good news for you. You might want to consider taking the plunge and buying a home if you feel you can afford it. There are some serious bargains out there. Just be careful and don't get in over your head.

04-03-2009, 09:28 PM	#4
Anoree Moderator Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Germany Posts: 2,015	I am truly sorry that this has been a week of bad luck for you. For the webcam session, it's no big deal. We were pretty content just chatting with you. You could just as easily have called the session off completely, we would have understood. For the ER visit, I'd rather go there more than once with the result "all OK" than avoiding it and be struck with something severe. You're definitely not hypochondric in my eyes. From what I read about the migraine, the pulsing feeling in your veins could have been the prodomal phase of your migraine already. The missed class and the math test are less important than your health, I think. I wouldn't be too worried about them. I'm sure you can catch up later on. That the migraine hit you right on the date of the Phoenix Forum is bad, bad luck in deed. I know you looked forward to the Forum. Dragging yourself out to the Forum with the migraine still going on won't help it at all. What you need right now is a silent, dark room where you can relax and wait for the migraine attack to pass, just the opposite of what the Phoenix Forum has to offer, I think. I'm sure Lia and Tate would understand. I doubt anybody would think you flaked out. I'm just sorry about the missed opportunities of the Forum, but those fall minor to your health. I wish I could do something to help you through the migraine right now, like surely most of your other fans do, too. I hope you already feel better when you read this.

04-03-2009, 09:41 PM	#5
Geezer Danielle's Imaginary Boyfriend Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: San Jose, CA Posts: 895	Hey D, I hope you are feeling better by the time you read this. I noticed you also commented on Facebook and I left you a one line note of encouragement. I read about all of the stuff you are trying to do and it would give ME a migraine, as well. You are just buried under so many responsibilities and I don't think anyone could keep up with your schedule. Maybe you have to have a deep conversation with yourself and put your priorities in order. Definitely, school IS important. If it means less updates here and not replying to PMs, so be it. I doubt that you are making any serious money here, with memberships, anyway. You have about 800-900 forum members but how many really pay the fee to join your pay site? Do what is best for YOU. Try to relax and find time to "just be!" No one wants you to be sick nor unhappy. Just realize you can only do so much and stay within your own limits.

04-03-2009, 11:16 PM	#6
CK1 Danielle's Biggest Fan Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Near Orlando, Fl Posts: 468	sorry about the bad luck. but i am sure it will turn around. first, webcam show was fun. it was great to just be able to talk. second, i am sure if you talk to your teacher and show him the ER bill, paperwork, etc. she/he will be willing to work with you. and i am sure you did better than you think but maybe not as good as you wished. Take care of your self first. we can wait and we understand... Ck

04-03-2009, 11:39 PM	#7
grande351 Danielle's Imaginary Boyfriend Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Baltimore, Maryland Posts: 876	Danielle, Sorry your not feeling well. I hope you're better soon. The webcam was very enjoyable. You shouldn't feel that you have to perform for us every time. I find it just as enjoyable chatting with you. Judging from the other comments I've read, I'm not alone in that. I don't get migranes often but I've had a few in my life and they can be absolutely debilitating. I wouldn't wish those on my worst enemy! Please don't worry about missing a class or two, or that someone will think you're a hypochondriac for going to the ER. Better to go and find out there's nothing wrong than to not go and end up seriously ill. Don't stress yourself out about everything you "need" to do. Your health should come before everything else Get well soon Sweetie!